Wow Scandolous! I just finished reading your anal thread, and thought I'd check this out. Another thread close to my heart.

I agree that knowing the other person is enjoying wielding the crop/cat-o-nine, makes it better for me. But I would enjoy it even if they were just doing it because they knew I liked it. I am quite the pain-slut, a fact that certain people around here can attest to.

I am incredibly lucky. Sweet Tiger is willing to push me, but will hold back if I need her too, and after a scene, she is so tender and kind. And praise from her about how I did means the world to me. And, on the flip side, the punishments she chooses if I don't do well are pretty good too.