Kink is good. Kink is like enjoying strawberry-rhubarb pie. Not everyone likes it, and it's not nice to make those who don't eat it...but if you do like it, why not have a piece now and then, savor it and enjoy life? It's just tastes, what we enjoy and doesn't harm anyone else.

Yeah, the stuff we do is out of the ordinary (although I could go on at length about how thoroughly inundated mainstream culture is with power exchange icons) but we're SUPPOSED to be unique and special beings. We should enjoy that, not struggle to fit into a boring world.