There is one small thing that you both need to be aware of--the final product of your play. The wee thing will be very demanding--far more than the most demanding mistress or master you have ever met--of your love, time, attention, energy. This will greatly enhance your overall lives, but will do little to enhance your BDSM playtime. Both of you need to be aware that adjustments will be necessary. For example, it might not be the best idea for mommy to be bound to the bed waiting for her master's arrival once the new Master/Mistress is on the scene. Also, H/She might think it great fun to train both of His/Her new subbies to be able to survive on as little sleep as possible--sleep deprivation might be a great SM experience, but it is not going to do anything for your sex lives. It is really great that you are able to integrate your efforts to have a baby with your BDSM lives, but as the battle-scarred dad of two terrific teenage sons--you should be aware that your lives will change for ever upon His/Her arrival. The best of luck to both of you...and in all seriousness, I just wish my wife and I could do it again....

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FYI - things seem to be going well. Thanks for everyone's comments and such.