We had similar problems conceiving and finally turned to adoption. A good international adoption will cost you about the same as IVF #2 and you will be guaranteed a healthy child. We adopted both of ours, and it was the best thing we ever did--and I only wish we were young enough and had the money to adopt a third.

Best of luck and best wishes,
steven

Quote Originally Posted by oneslave4me
Have kids or not have kids?

Trust me, we have these conversations from time to time. Especially since we're dropping so much cash in the process($11,000 for IVF#1, $16,000 for IVF#2 coming up). Abstaining during the IVF process put a major crimp in our style and resulted in a lot of disconnection.

But, we've always wanted kids, are great with kids, and we ain't getting any younger at 31/30. So, we'll figure it out. And our bedroom has locks, our toy box locks, and we have a split floor plan.

We'll figure it out. Everyone who has kids does.

Thanks.