Wise words, pretty much mirroring what my freinds said when I first got together with this chap.

Unfortunatly, I didn't listen. Now I'm in too deep. 1 week, 2 week, even possibly a month into the realtionship I could have left without causing anyone any harm.

Now however, I'm screwed. I really don;t know what to do. Yes, of course the answer is to leave him. Words I find easy to write, but nigh on impossible to act upon.
I keep thinking to myself, in a few years he will have sorted himself out and I'll be able to leave then. But I don't know if thats going to happen.

When I say it'll kill him if I leave, I don;t say those words lightly, it will actually kill him.

Funilly enough, the first thing Ally said when I told him what was going on was 'Does the word codependencey mean anything to you?'

I'm only 23, I shouldn;t have to worry abuot things like this!