Giver or taker.

[gagged_Louise]

I think I am a taker, because I delight in giving, but in giving I am given so much that I take....

Suspect this applies to most subs...???

cariad

Interesting turn cariad - yes I think I'd agree that in many D/s relations it is the sub that's most free to let her feelings flow out, while she's channeling the input and th energy given by the Dominant, and to express the emotional ride though her body may be bound.

I still feel I'm a giver though, having been known to come up with so many odd or wild ideas for others to pick up or play back at me. Though I'm perfectly able to develop and fulfil them myself too, of course...