Quote Originally Posted by cariad View Post
and I would like to see a more rounded picture presented, that living a BDSM lifestyle is not just about Doms in black leather and subs being beaten until they gasp out their safe word.

A documentary on vanilla relationships would not just focus on the bedroom, so why should one on BDSM just focus on the dungeon?

Oh - and Discreet Charm, welcome to our online community. I can't help but think that you will find some interesting facets here, but do ask you to respect members' confidentiality and sensitivities. From time to time people open themselves to the point of vulnerability. Given your question, I am sure I do not need to ask this of you, but there will be a lot of sad people if you should use what you read here as material for easy entertainment.

cariad
That's a good point. In a 24/7 DS relationship I'm sure the obedience thing would be interesting. When my slave is happy to see me after I've been away she usually kisses my feet. Things like that. Not necessarily sex, but still part of the D/s world. Good call Cariad.