bdsm Documentary

[Havensov]

Welcome Discreet Charm!

I will not echo what has already beens said here, but I do agree with all of it.

For me, I would love to see the "normal" side of BDSM. Yes my pet likes to submit, wear leather and heels for me... But what about that she is also a caring mother? That she walks the kids to school everyday, or that she likes to catch the occasional football game, or cooks a great dinner. Or on the Dom side, that I am just a IT guy (ok maybe a bit more geeky then your average Joe), that I like to play paint-ball and rock clime...

Basically that just because we like the fetishes that we or live the lifestyle that we do that it doesn't mean we don't live like everyone else.

Just my two cents.

[tessa]

Welcome to the Forums, DiscreetCharm. We welcome you here to our community. What a task you've taken on. I respect the open, honest way you seem to be going about it. We trust that you have nothing but the utmost respect for all we are.

I was all set to have my say, but Tom, cariad and Aussiegirl have already said it all.

No, I am quite happy that they did. They said it far better than I could have. We are just moms, dads, married couples, single people, college students, wanderers, older and younger...just normal people with normal lives who happen to have certain preferences in certain areas. The extreme, the freak, well yes, that garners attention. But the sincerity in the everyday, well that's very much a real part of it as well. And that deserves some attention of its own.

Best of all to you as you work on your documentary.

tessa