Welcome to the Forums, DiscreetCharm. We welcome you here to our community. What a task you've taken on. I respect the open, honest way you seem to be going about it. We trust that you have nothing but the utmost respect for all we are.

I was all set to have my say, but Tom, cariad and Aussiegirl have already said it all.

No, I am quite happy that they did. They said it far better than I could have. We are just moms, dads, married couples, single people, college students, wanderers, older and younger...just normal people with normal lives who happen to have certain preferences in certain areas. The extreme, the freak, well yes, that garners attention. But the sincerity in the everyday, well that's very much a real part of it as well. And that deserves some attention of its own.

Best of all to you as you work on your documentary.

tessa