I agree with all the points said here.
I want a focus on that we are normal just like every other person on this planet with normal wants and needs and friends. We are ordinary people but yes we do indulge ourselves in bdsm and other "kinky" stuff.
We are more than just leather and chains and whips. We are not the "freaks" that the "normal" documentaries show us to be.
I guess that would be my point.
Mysc said it really well.