Quote Originally Posted by Sheilu View Post
My concern: I have always dreamed of what my ideal Dom would be like, but have yet to experience it. I wonder if I would be able to fulfill that role for my sub.
No... you probably won't be able to be that partcular ideal Dom. That Dom is only going to be ideal for you. Unless your new sub is exactly like you in every desire, including the levels of desire, with your experiences and needs, then you will likely disappoint him/her.

I suggest trying to be whatever he/she needs as he/she learns and grows. Of course, this will be difficult... the dominant role is invariably about what the dominant needs and wants. If that includes the submissives desires, then you will be a good dom, regardless of whether or not you're the ideal dom.