One thing you keep oin saying finally struck a chord. When yuo say he feels youshould wait beofre playing again, and also we have missed lots fo really good sessions. How long are we talking about. hours days weeks months?


If it affected him so strongly that he feels he needs to wait for days or longer to play again. Would bring up the questiopn as to why. Does he feel he made a critical mistake that could have jeopardized your safety. Did something occur that is casuing him to question his abilities. I amyself have recently been in the last position and it not a fun one to face. The hardest part to do is to force yourself to keep on moving forawrds, and to face your demons.

You made a great point communication in the long run tends to amke everything better. I wish you two well and much fun in your journies.