Quote Originally Posted by master_kyrk1
One thing i have learned recently the hard way and i mean the hard way, and it took me about 3 years to learn it. Is do not compromise your integrity when it comes to BDSM.
Kyrk, that's one thing I'm learning. "All or nothing" has become a phrase we remind each other of. No halfsies. It's hard because you want to take care of your sub and keep things consensual, but you also don't want to compromise your desires.

It was not a big huge deal, just one of life's bumps, but it's always good to ask advice from "outsiders" so you don't have too many of those "knock back a few cold ones and hurl accusations at each other" moments.

Not like I can call my sister or girlfriends and ask them how to deal with it, they don't have nearly the interesting sex life DH and I have.

thanks again,