Quote Originally Posted by pop_54
I have to agree, for a guy to fantasise about raping a woman, that is easy to translate into fact, rape her against her will... But for a woman, or gay man, to fantasise about rape and wish for it, well no longer rape is it if they want it... I can see however, some person fantasising about rape and wondering how it would feel to be raped without atually wanting the act performed on her / him... more a visualisation in the mind of how much pain and suffering there would be involved with being violently raped, while all the time being scared shitless of it actually happening to them... The if they got raped it would be fantasy turned reality.
I have a strong feeling yhat different people do not use word RAPE in exactly the same way.
Anyway, key word is FANTASY. Rape fantasy is classical Freudian fantasy (like flying or being naked in public). Most people just fantastize (or perhaps just add some spice through rough sex) some will enjoy play-rape, a few are willing to go trough staged ENACMENT. But REAL rape is not even close to it. And it should not be, thanks god ..

P