Is calling a 1-900-FuckME number cheating?

Is watching a porno, and fantisizing about beign one of the characters in it cheating?

Is looking at a women, and dreaming of a life together cheating?

Is typing to someone and having cyber cheating?

Granted some people may take this activity as beign greatly involved. Others may have the more realistic aproach of putting it in the place that I beleive it belongs, that of an activitie that is fun. I think to beleive that you have a huge connection with someone over the net is just an illusion. But this is a discussion of philosophy and not of truth. There is no right answer, only that of the individual.

Personally: I would feel betraid if my partner felt involved with someone over the net, but if it was just fun I may have a different view. I would feel bad because of the dishonesty contained in this activity, and the hidden nature of this.

Where is the line.

The dishonest behavior is at the heart of the problem. You have promised your husband a life with him exclusively and yet you sleep with another women without his knowledge. That is a very negative thing.

The right thing is to be honest and open with your partner... now the challenge is to live a life like that. Its not easy, but If I was in your husbands spot, and I found out about your dishonesty, I would be greatly upset. It would almost certainly end our relationships.

BTW. Internet spying by spouses who feel unsure of their relationship has become a common place. Private Eyes often are no longer used because of these great do it yourself activities. I have provided some links to some software and to some places that would be benificial for the do it yourself'er!

http://www.softactivity.com/
http://www.spy-patrol.com/
http://www.bioscout.com/
http://www.spy-software.com/

IF you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, then I greatly encurage that you use this software BEFORE you confront them. A local Private Eye may also be hired.

Kostly