Quote Originally Posted by ch269 View Post
Hi all

Iam a true sub. i have come across some stories that realy turn me on , about women facesitting men , riding there face , till they go wild , and actualy smother them out cold . i realy love my wife / mistress , and the way she rides my face . i have asked her to try this , and she has , but every time she sits , and cuts my air , i go into defense mode and always get out of it . she tries to tie me up , but is not realy good at ropes . is there any advise from you all that might help
I'm assuming you realize that's how it occurs and you just can't control yourself.

Well, you need a better restraint system. Start with your hands. tied by a rope that is strung under the bed to the other hand and have her cinch it tight. Then cinch it tighter. That will limit your ability to move out from under her better than simple bonds and her weight.

Then do the same with your legs and several ropes over your torso. If this doesn't work, add more loops. Make them tighter. Try again.

Buy insurance because what you're trying to accomplish defies the use of a safeword. You're either conscious or you're not. She needs to have a timer so that she can experiment with the amount of time it takes between you going slack and respitory arrest, hopefully not discovering the latter before she finds an amount of time that allows you the "out cold" effect.

(If you really only want suggestions from the dommes, ignore all this. )