Ok, this is very simular of a topic that I have writen an article about. But, am I wrong that just flogging someone until they agree is not what a Dom/me should do? I personally never agree to flogging for this reason when I was training as a Dom and I still don't agree now that I am submissive to my Mistress/Wife.

What good are you getting out of this action if you have to "beat" someone into submission and to agree with you? Wouldn't it be better if the submissive is submitting (and/or agreeing) at their well, not because they were flogged into doing so?

Flogging someone til they agree isn't consitual is it? Besides if your submissive needs to be flogged a lot to be able to submit, are they truly submissive? or do they truly agree with you and make it a happy, healthy relationship?

Just my thought...what is yours?

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