Quote Originally Posted by Naomisagoodgirl View Post
Three out of four Doms agree, mistakes happen and can be fun. Fortunately the one that matters is on my side. I'm a forgetful person, but I try my hardest to please Sir. Sir knows this and loves me despite my forgetfulness, if not because of it. I'm very lucky.

The implications that I am spoiled and don't understand my role hurt me a little, even though I know they shouldn't. Sir is a wise and experienced Dom and he wouldn't let me be spoiled or misunderstand my role in his life.

And I would like everyone to note that the bed is made right now. Hot damn is it made. There is not a single thing wrong with that bed. I can't wait until Sir gets home. Of course, I probably forgot something else .. .
Sorry Naomi, it really isn't my intention to make an example of you. For that I apologize. I have an issue with the approach some of the gentlemen here take.

There are so many dominants here who are new to the lifestyle... and they only get to see two types of doms. The "Down on your Knees bitch" type or the polar opposite who make the D/s relationship revolve around the submissive.

Well, for the most part the former get ridden out of town on a rail... and pretty soon you have a population of new dominants who think it's all about "brats" and play punishment. I'm not knocking it if it works for you and your master... but for many of the new doms looking for guidance, they know no other way...

There is a middle road. And a whole lot of submissives who relish it, crave it... and don't get to participate in it.