Well since I posted a couple of days ago I've been really thinking about this and I've kind of come to the conclusion that I will mainly be doing tasks without the kids around - which is hard because my youngest is only 3 and only goes out to pre-school two mornings a week. I still felt wierd walking around with nipple clamps on while making lunch, cleaning up, laundry and playing withe kids. When I was alone I felt great, very much enjoyed the sensation and thought about my hubby all afternoon but when I was around the kids it was hard to take my mind off it and I just didn't feel like I could fully enjoy the task. Anyhow, does that make any sense?

As for the sub/dom around the house we don't do anything openly. It's all a secret between the two of us when the kids are asleep at night... we have just started on the Academy and incorporating little things into life to make it a bit more interesting and keep the sex life going. One of my biggest turn ons is orgasm denial and I am not to touch myself without my hubby's permission. I like that - and it's something that doesn't involve much hiding from the kids but in my mind I know and it turns me on!!!

Anyhow, it sure feels nice to hear from fellow mom's because working a sub/dom relationship into your family life is hard and I kind of feel all alone with nobody around to talk to. Thanks for replying. Talk soon.