Ladies:

Aren't there any male subs who might have a leg up on this issue? Did ya catch that?

Those guys might have an inside track since they are the same sex...same as dommes...Dara...this is where you can jump in...where do you keep your decoder ring? Hmmm?

Nik

PS...some might not have a real book, but keep notes tucked with their papers...what cha think?