First thank you everyone for your input and suggestions.

I think that I will take your suggestions with regards to my girlfriend.

At the time she happened to be out of town so I took the opportunity to see a real Domme because I wanted to experience it at least once in my life. It was everything I pictured in my imagination - just a perfect session.

Figures I would randomly get a domme that I happened to be extremely attracted to for a number of reasons and perhaps vice vesa. Karma perhaps kicking in???

Unfortunately I have to let it go as much as I would love to see her again. I was as attracted to her as anyone I can ever remember. And I was honest with her and did tell her all of this. She left it open that she would love to do it again but I have too much to lose in my current relationship. As time goes on it gets easier to let go but talk about temptation!

It won't be quite the same with my girlfriend because she is not a true dominant and of course it is very exciting with a new person but this is O.K.
I think it will work out just fine.