I’m a female sub and I met my Dom online almost 7 months ago. We weren’t really looking for each other, but we sure jumped at the chance when it was before us. The fact that we were both interested in BDSM was a huge bonus for us. We love the dynamics of D/s and want the total power exchange the most. We want the symbolism of collars, a contract and eventually a ceremony to make it forever. Plus we like kinky sex!

We are very much in love and plan to be together in real life in 3 months. We don’t do a lot of online D/s stuff. We take our relationship very seriously and want most things to be experienced and explored in person and not over a monitor and cam.

These last months online have been great for learning to communicate, build trust and to learn who we are and what we want. But, it’s hard and painful to only have an online relationship and I want my Sir in real life.