Right...

Well for starters I don't know why you are sorry, so, no need to defend your opinon on mine, we have our own branch conversation, doesn't need defnding.

I always take my comments to mean the way they are, from most angles that I can percieve. Just because people have one or two posts, doesn't mean much in my opinon. Regular viewers, even writers I am assuming do not require accounts, so in a way to present their voice to a situation they consider unacceptable, they register an account and voice it. That doesn't diminish their opinon, wether they have 1 post, or a 1000 posts. It's a voice.

If you look at my post, I was refering to others, as these problems, I consider acceptable(in saying that I kind of chuckle, cause it really doesn't matter, if I didn't like it, I can suck a nut, it's not my site, but you know, community ect..), considering everything concerned. I offered a simple suggestion to quell the seemingly growing number of complaints, just a simple post every day or two, to atleast give people a sense that he's involved. Granted, anyone who doesn't think he is, is just impatient, but a simple gesture of communication helps a great deal, and if people continue to harass him, well they do. I suppose it is good that they do aswell, it helps him get to know what a feeling is from certain people(s), but those people should assume he is doing the best that he can do at all Times. One thing I figure is, people don't realize the amount of work that goes into it.

Now....let's say it was you....you had decided to take on BDSM Library,
My opinons aren't blinded to facts, and if I took over a site of this magnitude, I would post a tad bit more, to stop the complaints aimed at myself, and also to stop the apparent discomfort it is causing other members of the forum. The last thing you need is a forum attacking eachother. I doubt it would happen, but you know.

I understand on a simple level the amount of work that has to go over to this, and it is his Site now. And he is just learning how to move about through it and morph it into the image that best suits his personal agenda for this site and it's future. So, I really don't see a problem with the site itself, just the communication between the site owner and the people. And in that, nothing is perfect, and I am sure he is quite busy.