First of all, I haven't said hello to the new owner, so hello Tiger

And secondly, let's give the poor guy the benefit of the doubt. Yeah, it would be nice to have an occasional update on where everything's at, but chances are he's working his arse off behind the scenes to get things going. I run a forum (non-BDSM related) and it's a hell of a lot of work, I can only imagine what forum plus the rest of the site is.

I think if you'd like to know what's happening a simple "hi Tiger, how's things going, is there anything I can do to help?" will be fine. No need for a running commentary on what you think he's doing wrong. There's plenty of time for constructive discussion like that once the site is on it's feet again.

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