Quote Originally Posted by GreyJack View Post
One of the great challenges in D/s relationships is the tendency to over psychoanalyze each other's motivations. Well, that's true in any relationship, but D/s seems to bring out the "inner shrink" in each of us and we "think" and "think" why me, why this, why now, etc. Why is that? Why not simply enjoy the pleasures we mutually share and be satisfied with our portion of ecstasy and joy?
I find for me, I do this in all parts of my life, you see it's my job to observe behaviors and help analise why they are happening in order to find a way to change the behavior (my job, for a large part , is behavior modification) At time this can be a good thing, I also know how to encourage positive behaviors, but I find when something doesn't seem completely right to me, I am always looking for a reason behind it. I really have to stop bringing my work home with me