Oo one final thing, though. Just because you might meet for the first time in a public place and stay in public, that doesn't mean he can't stretch his dom muscle...
Absolutely. Having been on the receiving end of that "domly muscle stretch" in a first public meeting - it's powerful. And incredibly hot.
And I second the cautions and the well wishes. Have fun!
Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.