well, i agree that you need to be careful and all o the above.

i guess i dont understand people's need to go get experienced with play sessions and such. i can understand needing, wanting, and trying to find the right real life relationship, but experience for the sake of it? hmm.. just seems like more for the Right One to have to try and unteach someone in order to get His own ways taught to you properly.

but thats just my point of veiw *smile*. i hope whatever you choose that it turns out well for you. i hope you'll be careful.. sorta sounds like Mr Unavailable is already an emotional danger to you i think... and if you have sessions with him i'd imagine that will grow to be more so...and He's all set up with the get out of "but i said i dont want a relationship so dont blame me if you got attached- you're your own problem not mine".

(ok i'll say it- i'd wait. these things are always a risk, no matter how careful you are. it seems to me better to take risks over the chance of a real relationship than to risk over knowing theres no chance of anything meaningful.)