Well I sent him a pm last night titled Candor, he knows I am overweight by about 45 lbs and accepts this. I have been working on this and have lost 15 lbs so far. I did not tell him this yet intend on continuing, because it is for the best of my health.
He knows I smoke and have also been working on this, going from 7 packs a week down to 1 pack a week...just that last pack to drop is so darned hard! Mind over matter.
... and as last night he now knows I have a few mental lables being PTSD, anxiety disorder and deal with depression as well as I have had cold sores since I was a young child, outbreaks due to stress or an asthma attack or respiratory illness.
Now we wait and see if this is the quick end of a wonderful beginning. AH!