Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
I'm confused as well, that's why I posed the question.

It doesn't seem to me that you've done anything "wrong" or that you brought your feelings to the forum too soon. After all, you didn't mention any names.

I hope all turns out the way you wish.

*hugs
Oh blythespirit...I did not post my last post in relation to anything you asked except I would hate to have his name be downtrodden or he be judged and yes I did think it be "inconsiderate" of him myself, (is this judging or stating the truth, or voicing feelings?) and where is the line drawn to state such without knowing what has happened. It's a dizzying circle and add to this the feeling of loss of something.
Another reason I did start posting this so early was in hopes of possibly helping others, be it a short journey or a long and learning one...right from the beginning.
(man do I have a lot to learn)

Thanks for your wishes, responses and hugs

mayhaps it is that time of the month and I have simply sworn off chocolate...therefore feeling bereft of this also and finding all feelings amplified.