To say the D/s is the ultimate of love would be correct but only for me and those like me. Others can not even believe it is love because it is so different then their needs.

Lets please remember we are different even in the Life, so the ultimate for one D/s couple is very different for another and most of us understand that so why is that any of us could say some nilla couple hasn't found their ultimate without any of our style of love and affection.