Female chasity devices?

[Echoes]

I have been spending my time searching the net for more information and insight after first asking my question here.

First I have found a few varieties chastity belts and I will post these here in seperate posts. If anyone has anything to which they wish to add, change or debate upon, please do not hesitate as I have had no experience with these and welcome any forthcoming knowledge, thanking you in advance.

I also do not wish to ill-advise anyone, these are just what I have found, some of which others have posted their experience.

The most reliable and recommended Chastity Belt is found to be a Metal Chastity device, highly recommended and best for long term wear because of it being stainless steel, thus better hygeine-wise as well as tamper proof unless of course you decide to head to a locksmith.
Metal belts are most expensive (approximately 600 - 1000 dollars) compared to their counterparts and require exact measurements for success, thus taking a few months for delivery.

Attached are pictures as well as an email to which seems to be viable and true but the absolute fact is again unknown to me.

An email posted about wearing a chastity belt to which I found most interesting...

By a woman living in a chastity belt
In for the time being, a story in three chapters

September 1996
1. Chapter: first experiences with my chastity belt
Some time ago it occurred to me that a longer period of complete chastity, I thought about half a year or so, would very much enrich my experience. With chastity I especially mean, the avoidance of masturbation. Because my husband is away from home a lot, I do not have intercourse a lot, adultery is, for me, not in question.
I could not however, suppress my desire for masturbation with just my mind. I have tried several times, but failed each time after a very short while. Mostly it started with my tenderly, often unwittingly, touching my vagina with my fingers. Often this touching ended with orgasm.
A (girl) friend gave me the idea of wearing a chastity belt. She jokingly remarked that I should have a chastity belt put on me if I could not control myself otherwise. This joke increasingly became reality for me. After I informed myself as best I could where good chastity belts were to be had, I ordered one at Constance Enterprises in the USA. It is a La Ceinture de Chastete belt. This belt was made to my exact measurements that I had to fill in into a rather longer table. I have found no source in Germany that makes good chastity belts at an acceptable price. It took over two months before my belt finally arrived.
At first sight the belt looked relatively comfortable. At first I put it on for a few minutes to check whether it really fit. It was tight but really fit very well. I very soon decided to start a chaste phase that I could not end at whim. One Friday I deposited both keys in a bank safe 200 km away. When I got home the bank had closed already. Without a long hesitation I put the belt on and clicked the lock closed. Even if I wanted to, I could not free myself until next Monday.
The first hours passed without any problem, even urination went surprisingly well. It was however very unusual to do this with a naked lower body. The first night also went very well. I woke up a few times because when I moved in my sleep, my skin got pinched under the belt. Saturday became very disagreeable very quickly.
I intended not to think about the belt if possible and not to let it disturb my daily routine. I started the day with my morning walk in the forest. That was a big mistake, because I chafed my skin in several places.
The rest of the weekend was agony because some spots got inflamed quickly. I spend the balance of the weekend was spent with as little body movement as possible. Monday I went to the bank safe as early as possible to get the key for my release as soon as I could.
After that first painful attempt I did not touch the belt for a month. Then, I tried time and again to get used to it. Now I know how to wear it a lot better. I had to learn though to adjust my movements to cause as little friction as possible and to avoid skin getting stuck. Athletic activities are largely out of the question when wearing the belt, which is a shame.
The locked belt fits very tightly to my body, at the waist and the crotch. In the crotch it is so tight it maker my labia protrude through the slit. When wearing the belt it is totally impossible to get myself to orgasm with my hands. No finger can be put under the shield far enough and touching the labia is not enough to orgasm. On the other hand the metal edges touching my labia are arousing, making me want even more what I cannot get. For a short while this is a crazy feeling.
To make touching the labia impossible, I have ordered a so called secondary shield, a curved piece of stainless steel that can be attached to the lower part of the shield and locked with the same lock as the rest. I have not used it often because it complicates hygiene.
About hygiene:
I got used to urinating through the slit in the shield very quickly. The only problem being that some urine gets between the shield and the skin. Because the shield fits so close I can not clean it all with toilet tissue. The remaining drops I catch with a sanitary dressing that I always put in my slip when I wear the belt. To clean up as well as possible I shower every morning, trying to let as much water as possible to run under the shield. This does not work out very well though, and after a couple of days a disagreeable smell is unavoidable.
I can now defecate without soiling anything. I have to sit very straight on the toilet to accomplish this. In the beginning I often leaned forward too much, the chains are in the way then and a shower is the only remaining remedy. During my period I have not, up to now, worn the belt because I feel filthy enough after wearing it for some time.
My biggest problem wearing the belt:
Is the tight and stiff waistband, I just cannot get used to it. The belt is ever present and after a few days I want nothing more than taking it off. My longest wearing period has up to now been two weeks.
The safe place for the key:
Up to now I have had control over the key myself. By keeping it in the remote bank the threshold to open the belt was very high. I intend, some day, to present the key to my husband. Something he will certainly like. Before that happens I want to make sure I can take on significantly longer periods in the belt. I am not sure I can realize this. The goal of a half year of enforced chastity does not seem within reach yet.

End November 1996
2. Chapter: loss of control over the key
With regard to my chastity adventure some things have changed thoroughly. I have worn the belt continuously for the last two months and have lost control over the key. I never thought I could make it, but one can seemingly get used to anything. Now I want to tell you how this came about.
I locked myself in the belt once again for a new attempt on the 4th October. Except for the fact that the waistband continuously got in my way (especially during housekeeping and when taking care of the kids), I mastered the first two week astonishingly well. Therefore I decided to hang on for a few more days, at least till after the weekend.
Then it happened. My husband came home one week early on a Saturday. I could not get the key before Monday. I was able to hide the belt for him until the evening, in bed he noticed it. His initial astonishment soon gave way for a total enthusiasm. So I told him of my original plan, a half year of chastity. He managed to persuade me to hand over the key to him, which was done the following Monday. We agreed that the chaste phase should last till May 1st 1997. As I know him he will remain very firm on this matter except if a real emergency would arise.
When I realized what I had gotten myself into, I lived through some terrible days. The belt was a continuous nuisance. And I only wanted to get rid of it. I thought of breaking it several times. I did not however, want to allow my husband this triumph and hung on.
When I started to accept in my fate, my period started. At first I had serious hygiene problems. I begged my husband to unlock me for at least one wash a day. He did not yield and told me I would have to cope with it when he would be away anyhow. Somehow I got through.
After my period ended, my husband unlocked me for a short while and cleaned me and the belt. He took great care that I did not touch myself while this took place. Then he put the belt back on and locked it.
After I survived this the wearing of the belt became less and less of a problem. Even the waistband hardly bothers me. At times I forget that I am wearing it. One week ago when my husband went away on a business trip, he locked the additional secondary shield onto the belt. He had noticed that I often petted my protruding labia in bed. He wanted to make this impossible for a certain period.
This hardly changes the mechanical wearing characteristics of the belt. During the first days, however, it felt very funny when I felt between my legs and touch only metal, no part of my body.
The biggest problem with it is that it is extremely hard to keep clean. Each visit to the toilet takes a lot of time. Then the worst happened: my period came one week earlier than usual last weekend. Had this happened at the regular time, my husband would have been at home and could have taken the secondary shield off. Now I had to manage.
This all nearly drove me into despair last weekend. Several times I contemplated ripping off the shield or even destroying the belt. Till now I have remained strong.

Beginning of January 1997
3. Chapter: everyday life with the chastity belt
I can hardly believe it myself - I am still wearing my chastity belt. When starting this, I could not imagine being able to bear this merciless tormentor for so long. The breakthrough occurred, mainly, because I lost control over the key.
Had I kept the key - however far away deposited - I would certainly have given up. This is not so easy now, because I would have to reveal my weakness to my husband. This I want to avoid at all cost. Only that keeps me from destroying the belt sometimes.
Overall, I cope with the belt very well now. The frequent problem of chafing under the waist belt hardly occurs now. Some nursing is required, however to accomplish that. I have to guard scrupulously against dampness under the belt. I have to take great care while toweling myself off after taking a shower. I have to put a generous amount of powder between belt and skin. If I break out in a heavy sweat I have to take care to get dry under the waistband very quickly.
I have mastered the normal hygiene to some extent now, at least when not wearing the secondary shield. One good shower a day is enough to keep the odor problem within tolerable limits. I can not claim however to feel really clean. I can live with it though, and other people do not seem to notice. I change slip every day, which I used to do anyway. Additionally I always wear a sanitary dressing in my slip to catch any remaining drops of urine after a visit to the toilet.
During my period it is more difficult. With some trouble I now manage to insert a thin dressing under the metal. To do that I have to lay on my back and extend my legs at a certain angle to create some room between the metal shield and my body. Additionally I wear a thicker dressing in my slip.
I have only worn the secondary shield once (except for my initial short tests), and this was enough for me. A normal visit to the toilet is a real mess and the time when I have my period is totally unacceptable with it. My husband was very sorry I was wearing it when my period started. He was not around as my period was early. When he came home I was allowed a long bath - under his supervision of course. I was also allowed to clean the belt thoroughly. I was also allowed to bathe without the belt at Christmas. Of course I was not allowed or given possibility to masturbate. He says he will allow such baths occasionally after my period, this makes the whole thing a lot more bearable.
About the use of the secondary shield:
The utility of this piece is relatively small. It does deny access to my labia but that would not suffice to reach orgasm anyhow. It definitely makes satisfaction with a vibrator harder. With a small top an orgasm might be reached without the secondary shield. With very strong vibrations it would probably be possible with the shield too if the whole belt could be brought in vibration. I have thought about such things sometimes but have never tried. Since then I don not keep a vibrator in the house to avoid temptation.
No orgasm for months:
Since I wear the belt continuously I have not had an orgasm. At first I missed this very much because I liked to please myself so much. I have gotten over that. My desire to masturbate has, through the very presence of the chastity belt, disappeared almost completely. I imagine I could reach orgasm without using a vibrator. This could be done by lying on my back as when inserting a sanitary dressing. I can then even reach my clit with my finger. Fast orgasm would not be possible because the possibilities to touch are insufficient. This position is really not very comfortable. A few attempts in this direction have luckily failed. A secondary shield by the way would not remedy this.
Clothing worn over the chastity belt:
I largely wear the same clothes as before. Mostly jeans and a loose blouse, and during the winter I also wear a pullover. Because I do not like to wear tight jeans, there is no problem. Somebody who does not know I am wearing a chastity belt will not notice it. It took a while before I was really sure that nobody noticed, not even my kids. Only when bending over, somebody could see the chains running over my buttocks. But in critical cases one does not need to bend over, do we?
Freedom of movement:
The belt limits my freedom of movement only very little. Only in the stomach area I am a bit stiffer. In the beginning that bothered me, but now I compensate for this somewhat by moving differently. I am hardly conscious of it. A tight corset limits the freedom of movement much more. I just have to take care not to make sudden movements or get in situations where a lot of friction will be created. At first, I had to pay a lot of attention to this, but now it is automatic.
It still is a hard time:
Everything I have said must sound very positive now, but it is not as easy as it sounds. Wearing a chastity belt for a lengthy period is certainly not easy. It is not so much a result of the everyday problems as described above e.g. the hygiene. It is more the continuous realization that I carry my own prison with me and not being able to remove it, this is more of a psychological problem. Sometimes it is also the desperate wish to take a real deep breath, which the waistband makes impossible. It is a continuous change between the euphoria of having made it thus far and the despair when the belt causes pressure or bothers me otherwise.
Meanwhile I have grown real confident that I will hang on till May. It is a bit longer than I had planned for but we have picked a day that has special meaning to my husband and me.

Later addition:
Chapter 4 : The last months
05 February 97
Not much to report for now, I am still wearing my chastity belt and have gotten used to every day life in it. Nevertheless I rejoice at every day completed that shortens the rest of my wearing period.
I expect my next period soon now: passing this time of the month in the belt remains an anything but a nice situation. After that - something else unpleasant is coming up. My husband wants to put the secondary shield on my belt for at least 2 weeks. Just to bring some change in my daily routine, this time - without the risk of me having to spend my period with it on. I protested but didn't want to refuse categorically in the end. Let's see how it develops this time.
18 March 97
Coping with my CB has become normal for me. Often I hardly notice it for hours at a stretch. Even the waistband bothers me only a little. It still remains the most unpleasant feature of the device. The heightened hygienic effort has become routine, at least when I am not having my period or wearing the secondary shield. Getting used to this merciless steel bond to this degree initially seemed unimaginable. But then it has taken months to get that far.
I had to bear the secondary shield for well over two weeks, but that is over for now. It was much less unpleasant than I remembered. But then, I didn't wear it during my period this time. What made it unpleasant to wear the secondary shield was urine collected in the lowest part of the belt and could not be dried from all places. This leads to an unpleasant odor after only a few hours. To avoid this problem I usually sat down in the shower twice a day to clean myself. The smell problem was sufficiently resolved in this way. This cleaning procedure, however, added to the already higher hygienic toil. I can't pretend to like this accessory very much. I will probably have to wear it after my next period though. To really get used to it, my husband said, and I accept this, once again.
I often think about how it would be if I had to wear a chastity belt for a much longer period, or even forever. Initially I thought I couldn't stand that in the long run. But now I now I think I could. I could probably live with total denial of sexual activity. At first, I longed for sex, but then there were the physical barriers and the tight waistband to quickly chase away those thoughts. Now that I can bear the belt well, I surprisingly hardly think about sex. I currently don't plan on wearing the belt any longer than agreed. My husband would certainly not force me to do so if I do not want to.
5 April 97
For the last couple of days I am again wearing this inconvenient secondary shield, and it is not expected to be taken off until after I have my next period. I already feel bad thinking about this now. It's supposed to be kind of a glorious finish. I still imagine, sometimes, how it would be to be locked up for ever, but I don't really want to be. I want to really enjoy sex again, and see how it is after such a long period of chastity. My almost addictive longing for sexual activity, which sometimes leads to masturbating several times a day, has now been completely suppressed by the belt. And thus I think of sex relatively seldom. I expected that the longing for sex would increase during the chastity, but things developed exactly the other way round.
28 April 97
Now, it is only a few weeks until my liberation. The last weeks have really passed well. The approaching finish has probably contributed to that. I now know that one can live, for a very long time, with a CB. I don't plan to wear it much longer though.
I have just had my period with the secondary shield attached. There have been no serious problems this time. Several baths a day maintained my personal hygiene at a sufficient level. I can, also, insert a thin sanitary dressing under my crotch-strap reasonably quickly. It is amazing how one can get used to such dramatically changed circumstances.
5 May 97
I am still wearing my CB. More accurately I am wearing it again. With as before, the secondary shield installed. It is uncertain just how long this additional period of confinement in the belt will be. I will tell you how this situation came to pass:
The end of my wearing period was set to May 1st. We had sent our kids to their grandparents, to avoid any disturbances. I had suspected that my husband would relieve me of my obnoxious tormentor in the morning. He seemed, however, to want to keep me in doubt for a while. We made a very nice day trip and visited a very good restaurant. By the time we got home it was past ten.
The great moment of my liberation had to come now. I was told to strip completely, except of course for the CB for which I didn't have the key. My husband opened a bottle of champagne and we drank the first glass. I had to promise not to touch the lower part of my body during the rest of the night. Only my husband would take care of my lust during this evening.
After my husband removed the belt, we showered together. My husband took care of the cleaning of the lower part of my body which I wasn't allowed to touch. I was so very, very horny, I could hardly take this, but my husband was so careful that it took a long while before I could enjoy my first orgasm anyhow. We enjoyed quite some incredibly hot and beautiful hours. The long abstinence really paid off for me.
Finally my husband was so tired he couldn't keep himself awake. I was still very aroused, notwithstanding several orgasms. So it came to be that I started playing around with myself. Somehow I must have made too much noise. Too late, I noticed my husband was watching me. Then things went very fast. I was quickly back in my CB with my hands tied behind my back. For the short remainder of the night I had to lie on my stomach to be somewhat comfortable.
The next morning my husband removed the bonds from my hands, but the belt remained on. He wouldn't say anything about a new term for the end of my new wearing period. Now he’s gone for a week on a business trip and he has made me believe that I will be wearing the belt for a very long time, since I have apparently not learned to control myself.
Somehow I thought this would be different. I hadn't imagined having to wear the belt any longer, and had focused myself entirely on the end-date. Now I can't stand to continue bearing this tormentor on my body. Often I think of breaking it, just to put an end to this.
13 May 97
Since Monday morning the CB is no longer on my body. With no prior notice or ceremony my husband unexpectedly removed the belt.
Now, even when fully dressed, I feel naked. I seem to have become accustomed to the continuous pressure of the belt. However, I enjoy my new freedom, and feel, somehow, a new woman. Up until now I haven't masturbated yet, and I consciously intend not to do so in the future. I now know I can be abstinent for a long time, and how good it can be after such a long period. I want to be able to abstain from any supporting device in the future. It won't be easy though. So, I have made 2 arrangements with my husband to assist me in my resolve.
First, a deterring measure: if my husband catches me masturbating I will have to wear the CB for the following 2 months without any time out. With the unpleasant secondary shield attached. If I become compulsive again I will be caught because I will end up masturbating several times a day.
As a further precaution, my husband has kept the keys to my CB, which means I can not take it off if I lock it on myself. If I think that I am going to loose control, I can irrevocably avoid the worst, by putting on the belt myself. From the moment I tell my husband I have locked the belt on myself I will have to wait 2 weeks till my release, which should avoid overuse of this emergency brake. Even when I can not avoid the first orgasm I can thus avoid becoming compulsive again.
Looking back, I can say the chastity adventure has been a very interesting phase of my life. I am even proud to have made it through, because it hasn't exactly been easy after all.

Annie

As many people asked me whether Annie’s story continued, here is what she mailed me on the 20.1.1998

Hello Jan,

Thanks for your inquiry. I have to disappoint you a bit in this matter, because nothing much has happened in this matter since my extreme adventure.
At least I haven't completely forgotten my chastity belt. Although I didn't touch it for a fairly long period after my extreme adventure, I still felt something was missing. That's why I have been wearing it a few times since then for periods of one to three weeks. Making love for the first time after putting it off is always a strong experience; only that is worth the forced abstinence. My last chastity period of three weeks ended exactly at Christmas eve. The hours after the unlocking were my favorite Christmas gift.
Each time the start was quite tough, but on the other hand that is part of the charm. I quickly adapted to the changed way of moving and the harder body hygiene, and I didn't have any problems with wounds either, as had happened more than once in the beginning.
Surely I will wear my chastity belt now and then in the future, but until now I'm not looking for a second extreme adventure. Lately I often reflected about how it would be to be locked by ways of a piercing for a longer period. But until now I didn't have the courage to get a piercing. Furthermore I haven't found anything in that direction suitable for secure prevention of masturbation.

Annie