Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[Tojo]

redsonjaseattle, you don't sound crazy to me- crazy would more like if you were to put up with being treated in a way that was unacceptable to you.

In my opinion, as well as the majority it seems- do as Aesop says, & forget about what's 'done' in the D/s world.

A D/s relationship is like any other, it's between 2 people & to hell with what others think. Seems to me many of the people who don't care about what they're doing are the ones who spout 'rules' & what you should or shouldn't do.

Do what is right. If someone betrays your trust & won't listen to you, do what it takes.

As far as him 'releasing you', you have the right to do as you please, the same as anyone. If not, laws are being broken.

You have to decide for yourself what you want without compromise. If you can't sort it out with him you know better than anyone what you have to do.

As for what you said- "so tell me now if this has just been a bunch of casual fucks for you wrapped up in D/s rhetoric."

Well put, I couldn't have said it better myself! Sounds like you've got it pretty well figured.

Tojo

[stripedangel]

Hello to all!

i've been in the chats, and met a few of you. So, here's my formal intro...

Mr.FixIt and i have been married for 11 years, and have been in the lifestyle for one. We had toyed with the kinks, but i was the one in charge, for the most part, in our marriage.

A year ago, i asked Him if he would be my Dom....so here we are.

Nice to meet y'all!

Sooo here we are!

[butterflySlave4u]

welcome stripedangel!

[lilchia3]

I have been around here a bit just checking things out and trying to learn a little bit. I am a 23 year old woman, who has a tendancy to be on the shy side and have never had a master. I love to learn, read- suggestions welcome, and..uhh..am a hands-on learner.

About a year ago I decided to go into massage therapy school, which taught (and still is teaching) me about the importantce of positive touch. This lead me to thinking about the kind of touch I want and think I need. So this leads me to here and now. So, if you see me around say hi because chances are that I will be the wall flower. >embarrassed face<

[sub84]

I have been around here a bit just checking things out and trying to learn a little bit. I am a 23 year old woman, who has a tendancy to be on the shy side and have never had a master. I love to learn, read- suggestions welcome, and..uhh..am a hands-on learner.

About a year ago I decided to go into massage therapy school, which taught (and still is teaching) me about the importantce of positive touch. This lead me to thinking about the kind of touch I want and think I need. So this leads me to here and now. So, if you see me around say hi because chances are that I will be the wall flower. >embarrassed face<

im in the same boat withyou lilchia im 23 never had a dom or a r/l experience at all. ive found the forums to be very informative. welcome hope you find what you are looking for. maybe you can post some ideas on massage i personally love massage and am always looking for ways to do it better