A is for Aftercare

[slave_juice]

She usually says she's fine and just needs quiet - but I prefer a more hands on approach -

i like how your aftercare is so nurturing and you seem to dedicate alot of time and thought to it...

it seems like your sub is saying that she needs some quiet time after a scene though, for some subs that is necessary before (or as part of) after care...

for me, after a scene, when im in subspace... my brain is on "standby" im non functional and unreceptive to any stimuli... i very much need that time to process and recover from the scene...

when my dom and i first played together, we were both suprised that i needed that... now, after a scene, he has me comfortable under a blanket, in total silence... eventually he starts bringing me out of it and then proceeds to provide aftercare... it really works for me, i wonder how ur sub would feel about it...