Chatroom and wet toes

[Ozme52]

...but on the net as a whole...

That hits the nail on the head jennyfer, because the net is full of posers, moreso than in real life because it's even harder to debunk their claims.

The second issue is, every social group, whether informally gathered or formally organized, is full of wannabe elitists. Too many participants dilute their self-perceived sense of superiority. So they can't help but try to knock the competition.

[Uncle_Ed]

Hi fellow Perves (and I mean that in the best possible taste)

As I am new to any chatroom I guess my opinion carries little weight with some peopLe. But, my dears, WHO GIVES A DAMN? There will always be fantasists and snobs out there in the vanilla universe and occasionally a few will breach the walls of virtual playland and wander around making "tut tut" noises or taking the p**s.
I seriously question if we even need to consider these folk. After all, if we claim not to be snobs ourselves we should smile at them sweetly and pityingly, pat them on the head (or rump depending upon one's preferences) and send them back into their own safe world.With Presidents Blair and Bush. That'll teach 'em.
I enjoy the chatroom as some of you will have found out. My aim is to have fun and (gently) ridicule everything, myself included (although there's plenty of you who do a good enough job on that score).
I do believe that I should have respect and have been grateful when informed about chaterers(?) who need special consideration.
BUT it comes back to enjoying oneself and sharing the fun with others.We should be able to tolerate the pseuds and quietly pity them. Suppose you had no "real" partner. An imagined one or virtual playmate is pretty damn good as a substitute. If they (pseuds) get off on telling porkies let them.
Personally I get off on this whole scene.Virtual, Vanilla, Dreamsea. It's all pervy and its all fun!
Here endeth the lesson.
Let us play.

[Uncle_Ed]

This may seem odd-replying to myself but in fact this exactly what this is about.
I have chatted in the chatroom for a little over a week and have enjoyed it up to a point. I now understand me more clearly and have come to realise that I need to communicate on more levels than an exchange of words as a "talking" medium.
Writing stories is different as there is time to build character, emotion and so on. It is understood that it is one-way feed and no instant feed-back is possible or expected.
I can now understand how life-stylers can appear to look down on the chatroom. If I seem to be doing so it's my problem and not that of people who enjoy chatting.I envy you the commaradarie that you so clearly have built up and regret that I do lack the ability to participate.
I believe that it may come down to one important factor. That is the lack of body language.
I find the greatest thrill in watching my wife's eyes as we play. She assumes an expression that I am not equipped to describe in words. She takes my breath away. She captivates me. She turns me on so powerfully.Words in this situation are inadequate.
I do write poetry. Poems can portray more emotion than stories but it's such an individual reaction and unless one is a T.S. Eliot or a Shakespeare with a genius above that of most of us, still not good enough to capture the intense excitement of physical interaction.
BDSM is about how one reacts to stimulii. My stories in this genre are not deep and meaningful. My subs cannot be bound and spanked then turn to their Master and profess undying love as that is inappropriate. I try to express certain emotions but more than that try to convey the animal sexuality of the experience.
Perhaps at this point you could accuse me of lacking imagination.
This is not so. I can see an erotic picture and be away on an erotic journey. I read BDSM stories and sit there with the tissues handy (don't laugh-we've all done it!)
Qmoq posed the question of snobbery by lifestylers to milder onliners.
I would like to think that I've gone a small way to discovering why this is.
I'll close by thanking those chatroom people who made me so very, very welcome.
Contrary to how my bowing out of chatting may appear I did enjoy those long hours of amusement and I would say to anybody thinking of trying the chatroom to do so.
It's amazing what you learn.