heh, i think i too should be added to the list of Aesop's stubborn subs, although Master always asks, there are times when i really think i can handle my emotions alone. However, i do think that both (or more heh) parties need some alone time, preferably in each other arms, cuddling, yet, especially after a difficult scene, some things (normally the more negative ones) should be thought-over before said. but that's my view on things :x