Yes I agree 100% mastersgem. I grew up in the 70s, & I seem to remember people taking much more pride in their apperarance back then.

One thing I love about my wife, is that when she goes out- even just shopping, she gets dressed up & looks good enough to walk into a boardroom.

I've always had a problem with the way the D/s lifestyle is so often depicted-the basic bondage video where 'guy meets girl/guy ties up girl/guy whips & has sex with girl' pretty much leaves me cold.

Subtlety is so very important- I much prefer the quiet gentle version of D/s- you can always turn the heat up....