each to their own, i personally dont like the leather outfits but the fact that im veggie might have something to with that.

my collar is stainless steel and what we think is 'classy' but thats what we like whearas others might think it tacky and if they do then thats their choice,and some people in the lifestyle think it tacky that subs wear collars 24/7 full stop.

i have black rubber collars and cuff sets and posture collar which i dont wear in public and i also have 'slutty' clothing for private and for pics and on the odd occasion ive worn them at fetish fairs and such and fancy dress partys are a great excuse lol...its fun and a bit of a thrill.
and generally thats when you do tend to see people in full gear,pics,vids,fetish places and partys its very rare you see them strutting their stuff in tescos.

as for the shock factor,ive seen quite a few people here love exhibitionism myself included,doesnt that cause a bit of a shock? couldnt that be called a bit tacky? and being honest is that part of the kick of it?