Well after reading Brosco's post, I realised I do share one of my girls. Her boyfriend takes care of the physical aspect, while I'm in charge of the mental/psychological side. In her words, I dominate her mind, & he works with her body.

I have no contact with him, but he does know about me, & thinks it's 'cool' that she has an online Dom.

It seems to work pretty well, so well I don't really think about it- just do what I can when I see her. It's a pretty part time thing with her.

I guess it depends on the relationship really, every one is different.

The young lady I was just speaking to, I wouldn't want to share with anyone!

Tojo