I had the same thing happen to me back when I was new to the lifestyle. I was in a little bit different situation, because I had been in an abusive marriage for 10 years where I was kept isolated from others. When I finally got out of the marriage I had no friends and my family was 5 hours away. I had gone back to college at the age of 35 and threw myself into my schoolwork, which helped save my sanity. I knew I was submissive and that I wanted a BDSM relationship, but I didn't know how to find a Dom locally. Then I discovered the Internet and became addicted to the BDSM chat rooms.

Eventually I found my Dom online and W/we chatted for a year before W/we met IRL. During that year He had to give me commands to go sleep so that I would go to class in the morning (or I would have gladly spent as much time as possible online with Him). He gave me commands to do my schoolwork and write my papers (I was working on an English degree, so there was a TON of reading and writing to do). He gave me commands like that all the time and had me send Him the papers I'd written so that He could make sure that I had done them.

Talk to your Dom about this. Being in a BDSM relationship can be addictive and very overwhelming and especially so when it's an online one, because you can get obsessed about the next time Y/you'll be online together. But any good Dom will make sure that you balance online BDSM life with a real life that's vanilla. Your real life will always be there. Online and the Doms there will not necessarily always be there. And real life comes first and foremost.