Rather new to the having a dom thing; we're both quite inexperienced when it comed to BDSM relationship thing. In the normal run of things he calls me ordinary girlfriend things like "hon" or "baby", but he has called me "slut" when we were engaged in non ordinary activities

The first couple of times it caught me by surprise and kind of jolted my brain in shock, which you'd think would be the desired effect only instead of jolting my brain further off with an incoherent thought of "guh," it jolted it back on more so I started thinking about being called that and how it turns me on in stories and here it is happening in real life and is it like the stories at all and is it having the same affect as it does when I read it?

Which mental babbling wasn't exactly conducive to the mood. But now I'm not so surprised by it and it does result in the "guh," which is very nice. Now I wonder if I told Himself this would he do it more or less often?