I've been interested in this lifestyle for some years now & still have no desire to go 'hard core' We're all different & I see nothing wrong with a bit of gentle D/s & light bondage.

When I first stumbled upon the D/s side of bondage, I was fortunate to have an experienced sub as a dear friend (still do in fact) & learnt a lot from her.

My first girl was a lot more experienced than I was too.

I agree with Oz- if you look around it shouldn't be hard to find an experienced sub who'd be more than happy to guide you along the way- it would be a mutually beneficial relationship.

There are some of the loveliest girls I've ever known, right here on this forum.

It's refreshing to see a prospective Dom admit that he doesn't know it all- I sure as hell don't & never will.