i'm TRULY not wired that way either, icey...i had an online Dom that i eventually found out was a switch (before i even KNEW what a switch was!), and we ended up in a roleplay that made me his mother, and him a 3 year old baby with a 8" cock....LOL!! Wasn't very well thought out on his part anyway, but it ended very badly...actually with convulsive laughter! and he made me swear to never bring it up again...he TRIED to Dom from the bottom, and that failed too....but i agree, some just don't have it in them....*wonders quietly what wicked subs J-Go has been talking to?*