humiliation

[Mistress M]

The most humiliating thing my boyfriend ever forced me to do was to striptease in front of his friends. But what made it even worse was the fact that I still had the butt plug and dildo inserted in me from the day before and I was wet. I don't like to striptease in front of strangers since my physical attributes are very different from normal individuals (I am a hermaphrodite). Some of the guys freaked while the other guys started to grope me. I felt a like a common cheap whore. In the end my boyfriend patted me on the head and left me with his friends to do what they like with me. It was one of the worst humiliating experiences of my life.

But was it also the most satisfying?

[kamuishima]

But was it also the most satisfying?

No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.

[Mistress M]

No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.

That is unfortunate. It was beyond what you were willing to submit to. I assume that now you know how to handle potential situations like that.

Humiliation in D/s and it's connection to self-esteem is difficult to dissect because of the very fine line that connects the two. The objective of responsible D/s is to be aware that the humiliation in play does not spill over into real life self-esteem.