New to this at my age.

[Warbaby1943]

However, if it makes you feel any better, I don't think anyone here would ever think that you are sick in any way. And I would say that all of us, at some point in our lives, have encountered some serious problems in our personal lives due to what we find desireable. So you have company at least!

--Mali

Malicat,

It does make me feel better and I'm very happy I found this forum. Everybody has been so kind.

Thanks.

[Tojo]

Yes once a partner has indicated they don't want to know about bondage or D/s play for once & for all, you have to live with it or look for an outlet. They ain't gonna change in a big hurry. This I know!

Anyway after all these years I couldn't imagine saying those things to my wife let alone doing it. 'Can you.....for me please dear?' Yeah right.

One small point re the feelings of wanting to Dom the lovely lady Warbaby- totally normal. I see a sexy lady in black boots holding a whip with 'that look' in her eyes sometimes & I think 'hmm being a sub for her mightn't be bad. (Now girls- don't get any ideas!)

Some people can do both, many of us have feelings either way.



Tojo

[Warbaby1943]

Some people can do both, many of us have feelings either way.



Tojo

Tojo,

Yes I agree and I am hearing so many things here I hadn't even thought about before.