Ok that sounds good I like that idea. When you first start out do you go easy onpunishments for a bit till they get use to it or are you strict right off the bat
You've got to do what's right for you guys Derek- each relationship is different. I personally am not big on punishments at all, showing my disapproval or disappointment is about the worst it gets.
Happy to support new (& experienced) subs/Doms in any way I can.
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'If you ain't where you're at, you're noplace'
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