I originally helped Master to pick out my collar, because there were certain restrictions. I have a real problem with necklaces, especially with delicate chains. They just break on me. I remember once as a teenager when I was lying across the bed doing my homework. The chain of the necklace I was wearing suddenly broke and the whole necklace fell down on my textbook. And this wasn't the first time or the last that this has happened. Also, I can't wear yellow gold. I'm allergic to it. So I either have to wear silver, stainless steel or platinum in jewelry. I really like the collar that Master and I picked out for me because it's understated and it doesn't scream out that I'm a submissive (gotta pass for vanilla at times). But I really would like to have a more "dressy" collar sometime too.