My apologies Oz- here you go- exact quote from other thread:
"If everyone followed your guidelines, no one would ever meet with someone they got to know online first." (Oz)
I think it's nonsense to suggest that- taking proper precautions should not put people off meeting. Anyone who's that easily put off isn't too serious IMO, or has something to hide.
Actually, I think it's too individual to generalise, like you both have here. Of course, that's just my opinion, and opinions will alway differ.
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