Quote Originally Posted by nikita
Just my observation regarding your tail...

You were the top in that little bet whether or not you lost. Else, she wouldn't have submitted. It didn't matter if she was a switch or not.

IMO, switching is not a role, as in top, bottom, or switch. D/s is a people thing, not a position thing.


I regret that you won't be offering that particular deal again.
A lost opportunity Nikita? What's your offer?

I may have been top by most definitions but was, at least for the moment, absolutely willing to accept my 'defeat.' But I will admit, the reason I won't again offer such a deal is that I couldn't put my heart into it and that wouldn't be fair.

I will say this however... she seemed to enjoy the subsequent online interactions with me... I give good cyber. In case you're ever interested.