Quote Originally Posted by ManOfFaith
Silke - many aspects of the BDSM community put a negative value on marriage, sexuality, purity and things of that nature. ...
While those from within the vanilla community put a more positive value on marriage, and are mostly pure and monogamous? Not, where I live, here on planet Earth, they're not.

I'm feel sure that the incidents of "negative values" are much the same in BDSM as vanilla communities. As each person (couple) finds his or her own level of what is acceptable sexual behaviour regardless of what activities they happen to enjoy in the bedroom (or dungeon ).

Quite frankly, I admire you for the way you have come in here and talked so openly about your religious values. Not too many men would feel as comfortable or confident about reconciling their Christian beliefs with their enjoyment of bdsm.

I wish you and you wife all the best in your journey of faith and marriage. I'm sure you, and your marriage, be stronger for both .