Quote Originally Posted by Masters_lilone
you can still follow your faith and incorperate bdsm into the bedroom me and Master are both christian and still live our lives as Master and slavegirl living the BDSM lifestyle does not make you any less of a christian.. just remain faithfull to your wife and if you don't want to scene with others don't
That's great to hear that both of you are Christian and can make this work. Unfortunately for me, Master does not share my faith and has a hard time believing. I would give anything to convert him, but that's not exactly the easiest thing to do. I don't think it's hopeless though, I know he's struggling to find God, and sometimes he'll even suggest we go to church. But then he just returns to his previous views...

Quote Originally Posted by ManOfFaith
I guess my real 'question/problem' is how to deal with my submissive/BDSM tendacies/urges outside of my marriage. The teasers (pictures, stories, techniques) in the BDSM world is something I seem like is hindering my faith. IMO,the teasers provoke other 'intimate' actions while getting caught up in them. Also, they provoke many lustful thoughts that kind of take my mind of my concentrated as a devoted christian.
Interesting point, but is it really all that bad to simply look at pictures or stories? I don't see why God would have a problem with "lustful thoughts", especially if you apply what you're seeing/reading about to you and your wife (as opposed to thinking of someone else while viewing).